bMenu help

Most of your questions should be resolved at the CMS Made simple documentation page:
http://wiki.cmsmadesimple.org/index.php/User_Handbook/Admin_Panel/Layout/b_Menu

But somthing that should be expained upon using the bMenu module is the Menu indicator setting. This setting is the 'link' to your menu. The default setting is good if you use the cssmenu.tpl menu template in the {menu ....} call.
So if you call your menu with something like:
{menu template="cssmenu.tpl"} it should work ok

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